Thats horrible TK....

I found one nurse to be like that when my DD was in hossy too (she was born at 31 wks from severe PE complications too). I can't remember what she said - but I lost the plot and burst into tears.

Emotions are already high up due to the quick and surprising birth - and you're already on tender hooks so to speak.

I'm sorry you came across a horrible nurse hun. Hugs. Stay strong!