He's only had about 3 days off lately, once when i was rushed to hospital just days after being discharge after my c/s with massive stomach pains (had infection *down there*) and th other couple of times when the kids were in hospital. Ill have a chat. When i told me, i had a go at him, which i apologised for, i was mainly venting at the fact that they did that. We could've lost our precious baby girl and they sack him. its not like he asked for pain leave either...