I told DH to go on ACA or TT, but he doesnt want to go on TV, said he doesnt want everyone to see how useless he is that he cant even keep a job to support his family... I told him it wasnt his fault, but he wont listen to me. And sometimes people might see him on TV and offer him a job! It has happened before... Ill chat to him, we sacrificed so much for them, and he gets sacked.