Not sure what hospital you are in - but when I had DD at 31 wks the WCH had a 'wookie' system, where DD and I would have a piece of material each which had a sphere at the top (like a head) and a material hat was sewn into it (if you can imagine casper the ghost in bright flowery colours wearing a floopy wizards hat we are on the same page). I had one wookie and DD had the other, and at each visit I would swap them so we could get used to each others smell. I had my wookie stuff down my bra ALL the time lol....and it just made me feel closer to DD when I sadly couldnt be by her side. Once I thought I lost my wookie and I was in hysterics - but phew, found it next to my bed.

Thinking of your family during this journey!