Just checking in, we've got a P&T, but not the toddler attachment (so far just worn the newie in a baby carrier) BUT I was working at Myer when doing pram research, and stopped every person with a pram, especially those with P&T's once I got curious about them - and the general consensus was that the toddler in the backseat doesn't mind having someone in front of them because they can still see quite a bit out the sides. In fact, one lady said her kids fought over the back seat! So, her kids could be weirdos, or it might not be the problem that adults think it is from a kid's point of view.

Also wanted to add, that I don't know what the other prams are like, but the P&T has an awesomely small turning circle, it turns on the spot pretty much, which is handy when navigating small spots like cafes.

All the best deciding!