My 1st has just turned 2.5 and my 2nd is 11 weeks old. The toddler loves the pram and is happy to sit back with a car and a snack lol. We got a Baby Jogger which can be used as either a single or double, plus I have a carrier so it's use chops and changes Mostly I have bubs in the carrier and the toddler in the pram, I also have a baby capsule that snaps into the pram as needed. But we do a lot of walking and he just couldn't walk that far.

As for the bed, we only turned his cot into a toddler bed a few weeks ago. Bubs will still be in the cradle for a few months yet, but I was finding that they would both wake up at the same time in the morning...it's much easier for me that one can get out without my help!