Best advice I can give is buy a second hand pram! It's very hard to know what's going to suit you, your baby, your lifestyle until you actually have the baby.
The first 5 prams I got were all hopeless for me, I finally got it right with number 6. Number 1 cost $850 brand new, number 6 cost $25 on eBay. I'm probably a slow learner though, most people should be able to get it right by their 3rd pram I reckon!
By buying second hand, if you make a mistake with the first pram or two you get, it doesn't matter so much. You can probably resell them for what you bought them for. Once you've owned a couple of prams and worked out what does and doesn't work for you, you can buy a brand new pram with confidence, or seek out a really nice second hand one.
Also by buying second hand there's no huge financial disadvantage in getting a really convenient pram for your first child because you don't need to restrict yourself to ones that take a toddler seat. Enjoy having a great, light pram while you only have one child and then buy a slightly less convenient pram with a toddler seat option when the 2nd baby is coming along.
I think a bassinet can be handy, especially for when you're visiting people. Little babies need to have lots of sleeps, it can be very hard to fit in a visit if you don't have something for the baby to sleep in! Bassinets are preferable to capsules because at least they're flat. Apparently you're not meant to have a baby in a capsule for more than a couple of hours at a time due to the position putting bad pressure on their spine. If you include travel time plus a nap or two when you're going visiting, that can end up being a lot of time in a capsule.
For what it's worth I think the "travel systems" are highly over-rated. Depending on how quickly your baby grows, you may only get a few months out of a capsule. My daughter was too squished in hers by 4 and a half months old. You're going to have to get a reversible car seat whatever in order to keep the baby facing rearward until their 12 months old (or older if you can!) so rather than doubling up by getting a capsule and then a reversible car seat, just get a really good car seat from day one.
Realistically you're probably not going to go out much in the first 4 to 6 weeks, and by about 4 months old babies are quite alert when you go places and want to be part of the action. That means there's only two or three months inbetween those ages where being able to remove a sleeping baby, capsule and all, is an advantage. And you may find it's such a strain on your back doing so - especially if you have the capsule in the centre of the back seat, which is the safest position - that you won't bother.


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