Am i being played?

[Chocaholic]

Maybe contact the doctor and ask if he has confirmed a pregnancy by writing it down on prescription paper in the last month or so. Ask what he would do if someone wanted to get a pregnancy confirmation for an ex-partner. You are not asking about a specific patient so there should be no confidentiality issue.

If you can't get her to agree to a doctors visit for definite evidence (i.e. blood test), tell her NOT to contact you until she has booked the 18-20 week morphology scan (ultrasound) and you will attend the appointment with her. If you don't GO IN WITH HER, tell her that you want DNA tests conducted once the "baby" is born by a doctor of your choice.

That way you can see for yourself if there is a baby.

Honestly though, she sounds screwy and I think you are being played. Sorry (or maybe not!).

[Indadhanu]

Hi

First try searching google images and you will get heaps of pics of that test.

The tests with black lines look pretty dodgy... i always thought the dye they use is either pink/purple or blue...? In any case the lines look huge... if there was a black dye test I doubt the lines would ever appear that thick so I would say they're most probably dodgy...

I'd be asking to go to the dr with her for a blood test. If she won't then wait until she has the scan and go along with her. Really though, like the others have said, theres only so long someone can pretend they are pregnant! If she asks you for money you can say no until you have official confirmation that she is indeed pregnant.