Am i being played?

[LimeSlice]

ahhh...yes, the faux miscarriage!! lol That will be a good episode! I should make some cupcakes for that one! lol
Sorry Josh, I know this is seriously your life, but she is too much!
Leave her the hell alone and be don with it...unless you like being played by a crazy?

[Aimz]

I guess we do find this slightly entertaining - and I know this is a serious situation - but I can't helped but be glued to what happens next!

Oh my... the drama of it all!

Limeslice - cupcakes!!

[sushee]

If she hadn't had a period since March and she hasn't been 'with you' in the biblical sense since March, and she is saying she's pregnant to your child from when you were together, her HCG result would NOT be inconclusive. She'd be in the last weeks of her 1st tri by now, so how could it be?? That's just bordering on ridiculous.

I know you're young, so will spell it out for you. You've been played. You now know you've been played. Cut her out of your life. If you don't then whatever comes next, honestly, you're partly to blame.

[Aimz]

Sushee - someone had to say it.

You have dozens of women here answering your question - YOU HAVE BEEN PLAYED. If you continue allowing yourself to be played then you can only blame yourself if you get hurt (or ripped off). Accept the fact that she is clearly lying - she has absolutely no concrete proof of being pregnant (despite apparently being 3 months along) and she is dodging your requests for a positive confirmation. This is not your problem anymore!!

[nagromeyk]

If she hadn't had a period since March and she hasn't been 'with you' in the biblical sense since March, and she is saying she's pregnant to your child from when you were together, her HCG result would NOT be inconclusive. She'd be in the last weeks of her 1st tri by now, so how could it be?? That's just bordering on ridiculous.

I know you're young, so will spell it out for you. You've been played. You now know you've been played. Cut her out of your life. If you don't then whatever comes next, honestly, you're partly to blame.

Here, here Sushee - well said. Have to totally agree with you!

[mountain mummy]

Besides, "Positive" wouldn't be written on the back of a pathology request, and the pathology labs keep those forms anyway!

She seriously needs help, and I don't think you should play into her little game anymore. And like others have said, even a urine test at this stage of pregnancy would NOT be inconclusive!

[myson]

Ok Josh. I dont know about where you come from but I have always had a DATING SCAN in all four of my pg's. This is usually done at about 9-10 weeks and you will see a tiny heartbeat. This was done as a PUBLIC PATIENT for no charge. Medicare covered it!

So heres an idea.... tell her you would like to go along to the ultrasound with her and see the little baby.... Dating scans are quite accurate. So if she has managed to get herself pg by now with someone else, you can work out the dates.

Maybe see the doc yourself and give him a run down on whats going on... if he is a GOOD doctor he will investigate her mental health if he thinks it is warranted. Or he may think she is just an immature, attention seeking twit....

Good luck Sunshine. And once it is sorted have no contact ever again!