BFN - But could it be too early?

**hj1981** · September 28th, 2007, 11:31 AM

CD29 - Still no AF - however have been pretty sooky this morning and have a yucky sick feeling in my stomach - sounds like signs of the impending AF arriving very soon!
PLEASE AF DONT VISIT ME THIS MONTH - BETTER YET DONT VISIT FOR THE NEXT 9MTHS (pray)

**Liviam** · September 28th, 2007, 12:49 PM

We've got everything crossed for your BFP this month. Sending you heaps and heaps of ****sticky vibes and baby dust****
Praying that AF doesn't show up for at least another 9 months.
Can't wait to hear (hopefully) your great news!

**hj1981** · September 29th, 2007, 11:05 AM

haha thank you! but i did my 3rd and final test today and once again its still a BFN - im guessing my body is still trying to sort its self out after the MC! One way or another i just wish AF would arrive or a BFP would happen so i can either continue trying again or just celebrate! hehe

Hows your little girl going?

**hj1981** · September 30th, 2007, 11:46 AM

last day of the mth and still no AF!!!

**Liviam** · September 30th, 2007, 12:02 PM

Still got everything crossed. Are you going to test again or just ride it out and see what each day brings?

**hj1981** · October 1st, 2007, 09:48 AM

Well i missed sept with no AF - still have queasy feeling in stomach this morning - i think maybe today AF will arrive - im not going to do any more test - i will just ride it out i think - if nothing has happened by next week i might be tempted to do one! do u think it may be my cycle just trying to get back to normal?

**Jayney** · October 1st, 2007, 12:33 PM

Here's hoping!

**hj1981** · October 1st, 2007, 01:56 PM

AF has just arrived!!!
So when what dates will be good to BD on??? so hopefully i will fall PG this mth!
How are you going Jayney?

**Liviam** · October 1st, 2007, 02:26 PM

I'm so sorry that the wicked witch arrived. The best days to BD are the ones leading up to 'o' day so that there are lots of spermies to meet your eggy. We BD every second day from the end of AF to 2 days after when I thought 'o' day was with a few extra in the days leading up to o.
So working off a 14 day LP and another 33 day cycle your next AF would be roughy 2nd November so take 14 days off 2nd November and BD for the four days leading up to it 2 days after just to be sure.
Good luck for this month.

**hj1981** · October 1st, 2007, 03:20 PM

Nurse Dan -
So in laymans terms does that mean i should start BDing around the 19th October?
sorry all of that went over my head!

**Liviam** · October 1st, 2007, 05:22 PM

I just re-read my post. A bit confusing wasn't it. LOL!! I'll see if I can explain it a little bit better.
A 'normal' luteal phase (LP) is 14 days. This is from the day that your egg is released to AF. Your cycle is 33 days (using your ticker) so the last 14 days of that is your LP or the dreaded TWW. So 33 - 14 is 19 days so you, in theory, should ovulate on day 19 of your cycle. So in a long winded way yes you should be BDing in the days leading up to, on and after the 19th just to sure.
Have you heard of fertility friend? It is a website that you can use to help predict ovulation using your temperature, cervix height and feel and your CM. A heap of us on here use it.
I hope that is a little bit clearer for you. If you got any questions just let me know. Feel free to PM too if you would like too.

**hj1981** · October 1st, 2007, 06:31 PM

Thank you for that!
i understand a bit better now

i have heard of fertility friend but the internet at work wont let me access it and unfortunally i dont have the internet at home! so i cant use that site to help!
so that's where all you lovely ppl come in! hehe to answer all my silly questions! and i thank everyone soooo very much for that!
so hopefully if time allows i will be able to see my DH on the right days this week and fingers crossed we catch that egg this mth!
i guess its a gotta be a good sign that AF has arrived tho, hopefully that means my body is back to normal after MC and DC.
Another question for you - you said feel free to PM - whats PM??? - sorry hehe