I think you should call the gyno in Bundaberg and see if they can fit you in as an emergency and make sure they understand how worried and concerned you are and if they still cant fit you in ask them what the hell you are meant to do...... I think you need to be really assertive and pushy if you have to be, my mum is like that and she gets her way all the time....

I so feel for you, you must be worried sick. Let us know how you go.