Sarah to be honest if he loves you enough he will except another baby. As you said, it takes 2 to make a baby. You thought you were doing the right thing, you were taking precautions. Not everything is 100% effeective (unless you dont have sex...thats your best protection). Accidents happen. In time im sure he will adjust to the idea (if you are preg that is).

Theres a lady on here whos partner never wanted anymore kids...and she fell preg....im sure things are all ok now though!

My body coped well. As for the tummy...well yeah....im heading into #3 we a tummy still that should have gone...but nope! Good thing though, my body knew exactly what to do come labour 2nd time round and didnt muck me over!!

For a women to get fixed they tie (or cut im not sure) your tubes. Not to sure on the procedure or on the males side either. I think you best bet is to talk to your local GP and see what he thinks and help with what measures to take. I dont like the idea of taking away my chance to have further kids....but its hard when i always want more!!

Im a firmer believer in day care and how it changes my kids social and there interaction skills. I have 2 very different kids since they started. Chelsea has gone since 5 months old and Jasmine since 8 months old.

Not sure on groups....perhaps ask your local GP or health centre, or yoru CHN...maybe she knows of some great groups for bak to back babies....even getting out and making new friends might help.

Theres a few Tassie people on here....post a thread in the Tas thread and see how you go.

Good luck..are you testing today?