Glad you're all getting something out of the thread. It's just what I needed too Becstar

I find the Pagan way is generally whatever way you've decided for yourself (not being told by an 'authority') and what feels right and in tune with the cycles of nature (seasons, life/death/rebirth, dark/light, etc). So if you're nodding reading that, you're Pagan! All welcome here anyways...

Sopdet - I look forward to meeting you in person one day. Your post was exactly what I wanted to say, but couldn't find the words!

I can already see the seeds of Lulu's flower begining to grow. She'd probably scoff at that but I know what I mean and I'm sure some of you do too.