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thread: Parenting after Loss or Miscarriage Jan/Feb 2011

  1. #145
    Registered User

    Oct 2006
    home sweet home.
    1,995

    hi guys, just checking in. We are ok. Still without power but we are taking turns with the neighbours to cook tea. Went for a drive today and the place is a mess. It's sad seeing beautiful old trees uprooted at every turn. Mum and Dad's place is a mess but we'll get there.

    B isn't sleeping well because it's soooo hot but we found some cold beer and some ice today so life is good ATM.

    Love Spring.

  2. #146
    Registered User

    Jul 2006
    Logan
    2,991

    Good to hear you are ok Spring

  3. #147
    Registered User

    Jul 2006
    Melbourne
    3,715

    Good to hear from you Spring. You must be exhausted Thank goodness for beer!!! xoxo

  4. #148
    BellyBelly Member

    Jan 2006
    Melb, Vic
    1,212

    Spring - you sound good hun, im so glad you guys are ok - hope you get power and water back soon. we had some minor flooding last night and it was scary and put us out for a while, and all I could think of was you and the people of qld.

    Hope your all having a nice weekend.

    do we have any plans for the meet up? Im thinking of coming to Syd on the Thurs night..

  5. #149
    Registered User

    Oct 2006
    home sweet home.
    1,995

    Guys I've been sacked as a Mod. No doubt this message will be deleted. Just wanted to let you know to contact me on fb
    is you need me.

  6. #150

    Oct 2005
    A Nestle Free Zone... What about YOU?
    5,374

    Hi lovelies. I have also been let go as a Moderator. If you need me you can reach me on FB. I am sorry I won't be around any more to help those who have lost.

  7. #151
    Registered User

    Jul 2006
    Melbourne
    3,715

    I'm very sorry that neither of you will be around to help those in need, you both do such a wonderful job of supporting women who have suffered and need help. It's a shame that that hasn't been recognised. Well, you know I'll be in touch

  8. #152

    Oct 2005
    A Nestle Free Zone... What about YOU?
    5,374

    Thanks Janie. Historically it's always those that stand up and say no to bullying that get knocked down. But not for long - the truth will always come out. I just hope it comes out before what Kelly has created is ruined by unkindness.

  9. #153
    Registered User

    Oct 2006
    home sweet home.
    1,995

    Janie, it's the people who loose a baby today and in the days that follow who I worry about.

    Just goes to show how bad a judge of character I am.

  10. #154

    Oct 2005
    A Nestle Free Zone... What about YOU?
    5,374

    That's how I feel too. It's those women who need help, who come here to get it. I don't think you're a bad judge of character Spring. I think that there are some dark people & unfortunately they are in a position of pwer on BB. There are also many many gorgeous beautiful Moderators & I think Kelly's idea, her vision is perfect. I think she has chosen badly by judging us as the bad guys. We're just the ones that stood up and said not okay.

  11. #155
    Registered User

    Dec 2005
    4,840

    To be honest, I am severely disappointed in the way BellyBelly is being handled these days. I think that its gone from a utopia that apparently is tolerant and accepting of differences to a dictatorship; and somehow its lost the vision Kelly had for it when it started. Makes me so very sad.

  12. #156
    BellyBelly Member

    Aug 2006
    Melbourne
    843

    OMG... I'm so sadened that this is happening. You've both been amazing supporters to me and so many others. I could not have handled everything I've been through without your support and I'm also worried for all those that are suffering losses as we speak... the way it's going, they'll have nowhere to turn! I'm so disappointed in BB right now... it's crazy!

  13. #157
    Registered User

    Sep 2006
    1,223

    I'm also very sorry to hear how 2 of the most kind,caring and supportive women on here have been treated...I want to thank you both from the bottom of my heart for all the love and support you have both shown me from the very 1st day I joined BB through 4 of my losses and the pregnancy and birth of Sage & beyond..It sure is a very sad day

  14. #158
    BellyBelly Life Subscriber

    Nov 2005
    Langwarrin. Victoria
    1,654

    I don't normally post in here but I have come across this and I have to say I think it is so wrong how this has all been handled.....I am at a loss as to why two of the most supportive and level headed mods have been singled out for attention in all this hoo haa..... who will look after the women experiencing loss now? I dunno...I am gobsmacked...it leaves a very nasty taste in my mouth. Anyways I would like to thank you both for all the hard work you have put into this forum, obviously for very little thanks it seems. I have always taken a lot away from your posts Deb and I hope that you won't just disappear although I can understand how you might not feel like coming back after being treatly so unjustly.

  15. #159
    Registered User

    Jul 2006
    Logan
    2,991

    I don't normally post in here but I have come across this and I have to say I think it is so wrong how this has all been handled.....I am at a loss as to why two of the most supportive and level headed mods have been singled out for attention in all this hoo haa..... who will look after the women experiencing loss now? I dunno...I am gobsmacked...it leaves a very nasty taste in my mouth. Anyways I would like to thank you both for all the hard work you have put into this forum, obviously for very little thanks it seems. I have always taken a lot away from your posts Deb and I hope that you won't just disappear although I can understand how you might not feel like coming back after being treatly so unjustly.
    :yeahthat:

  16. #160
    Registered User

    Jan 2006
    Sydney
    2,212

    My first EVER in 5 years.

    ETA - actually this all makes me quite sad
    Last edited by Michelle71; February 6th, 2011 at 06:38 AM.

  17. #161
    Registered User

    Jul 2006
    Melbourne
    3,715

    Well, I'm sad at the way you've both been treated, but you're making me laugh Spring!!! Hey, as long as we're all still in touch I'm happy

  18. #162
    Registered User

    Jan 2006
    Qingdao, China
    1,196

    You know, I am really, really, really going to miss this thread. It's just not going to be the same again. Gee we have had some fun! But more than that, we have sheltered Spring through the rain, we have held Michelle's hand through her grief, we have prayed for Janie's two little men born Prem, we have stayed awake with Willow & her non-sleeping little fella, we have cried with Mako through her heart-breaking losses, we have had the living daylights scared out of us when Deb's Immy was born & both were in very critical shape, we have noved Kelly to Melbourne & 'saw' her deliver another beautiful baby boy, we have winced in pain with BW & her sickness, we are just about to spend up on Bek's new business venture, we have helped Freya when she left her DH & rejoiced when they got back together again, we have marvelled in Lee's sheer brilliance at being such a wonderful mother & finding love again. You ladies were the first ones I told when I found out about Alan's fiasco - hell, you have all MOVED to China with me.

    Sorry, I just needed to get it all out.

    Love Jayne xx

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