sorry for no posts. I thought a person was sticky beaking into y posts, so i layed low for a bit. Well after a post in babie group before, i get an email, where it was confirmed that she was sticky beaking. IF YOUR READING THIS BUG OFF!!!
Sorry girls, am really hurt about this, espically at with Evangeline almost the same age as Lilli was. Im most likely over reacting, but i feel i can't be me now.
Rach I have to agree this particular STALKER is a royal pain in the butt. I'm SO over it too. It sucks when we find a special place that we can open up about how we are feeling to people who understand somewhat of what we have all been through and to have that taken away is truly hurtful just because of someone who can't help themselves. I would be ok with it if it was for supportive reasons but its not and that sucks.
So You know how to contact me if you need someone to listen and support you during this very difficult time hun
Rach/Mako - Mako has filled me in on what is happening and I'm so sorry guys. I would suggest speaking to the mods about it but I really don't think there's much they can do. This isn't a private forum so anyone has access to it.
I hope she gets the hint and goes away now.
Will BBL when my little monsters are in bed! DH at training tonight so I'm flying solo.
Perhaps someone could contact me by PM - I would like to know if someone is behaving badly... I watch very very closely for any funny business... So you can PM me guys & if I can do anything I will...
Rach/Mako - I don't know what's going on but it sounds terrible. I would hate to think someone that I knew was stalking this thread.. just horrible.. what kind of person does that.. I hope they GO AWAY too.. this thread has been amazing for me and I hate to think that you guys are now having to hold back.
Willow - Hope all is well.
Mako - Hope your avo and night was ok.. must of been the day for it.. Luke decided not to have a sleep today too and has been a nightmare!!
Lisa - How did DD go with her undies on?? How fantastic.. provided there were not accidents. Luke has been in undies today too.. we had an accident first thing this morning and another at bed time (both times when he was tired) but he was good all day. Did poo in the toilet last night too.. so we're getting somewhere!! It's very exciting but the accidents are getting to me!! I know they're to be expected but tonight, he knew he needed to go and wouldn't have a bar of sitting on the toilet.. he even asked for a towel to sit on at the dinner table.. because he knew he was going to wee.... frustrating!! I can't believe how close you are now.. all the best.
Meg - Hope you manage to get a bit more sleep. It sucks when DH has to go away.. mine has been away HEAPS lately and it's driving me mad.. so doesn't help with TTC either but I just hate being here alone.
Freya - Massive hugs, you're certainly going through a rough patch right now... surely it has to turn around. Come in and vent as much as you like!!
Oh Deb - You've been through enough lately too and it's just not fair. Wish there was more I could say. You're amazing.
Jo - I'm so glad you've got some m/s.. not what you want to hear right now.. but it's a good sign. Hang in there and hopefully it will be gone soon.
Lee - Hugs hun.. I can't believe how strong you are.
Janie - How are you hun?? I hope all is going well with Daniel.. he's such a cutie... and you're doing an amazing job!! How's N coping with it all??
Big hello to everyone else.
AFM - I'm loving having Mum here and as I said above.. Luke is finally TT.. it's so exciting but the accidents are not so much fun. He just decided out of the blue that he was ready... so amazing and it's so cute having him in his big boy undies!!! I love them. Other than that.. just trying not to think about anything else!!
Rach - im sorry hun, it sux when there is a stalker about, another friend of mine had this happen to her too. Sending you hugs as I know this is a difficult time for you
Kelly - she had the one accident but she wont do a no.2 in the toilet - she waited for her nappy to be put back on last night. But thats ok - I wont be fully TT her until after bub gets home.
Deb - how is DD?? Sending you some hugs too
A big cheerio to everyone else, sorry in a hurry, its 11am and neither me or DD are dressed, have to wash the dishes and go out - its my god daughters bday tonight and need a card etc..
OK - last night i thought this baby was going to come flying out of my hoo-ha! I had a lot of pains down there, and today they have settled but have been having mild period pain in the lower belly this morning. No BH's to speak of though. Mmmmm could things be moving along...??
Rach - So sorry to hear about your stalker I must say I find it quite astounding that someone finds it necessary to do that, don't they have better things they could be doing with their time?! to you especially at this difficult time.
Mako - Same to you as for Rach about the stalker just horrible. But 10.30 on Mon sounds good, I'll be the lady with the baby in the black Ergo Looking forward to meeting you
Kelly - Yay for Luke TTing! I'm sure the accidents will get less and less, my DD1 did it out of the blue too and she got things worked out really fast, even night trained very quickly after as well. So glad you have your Mum around
Willow - Posted to you in our baby buds thread, so won't go over it again here
Hi everyone else, E is asleep so I'm living on borrowed time! Had best go and get some lunch now while I can!
RACH _ I spoke to Spring a few months back with some stalking issues that I had as well & she was just brilliant to me, offered lots of advice, so please either PM Deb or Spring, your input on here is so valuable to us all & I don't want this stalker to win & you not post to us anymore - I'd miss you terribly! I find that you're such an inspirational person & I barely even know you yet!!! I can only imagine how hard the next couple of weeks are going to be for you, but rest assured, we are all here for you!
LISA _ Tell me about the TT! How exciting! I'm loving the sound of princess knickers! Love them! I want princess knickers for myself!!!!!!!! LOL. Well, you have to go full steam ahead now with the TT'ing now that your royal little highness has declared it a nappy free zone! How exciting. Oh & totally pushing that babies head out is going to be a walk in the park. ROFLMAO!!!!!!!! heheehehehe
JANIE _ I have just looked at pics of baby Daniel, oh my lordie he is your own little slice of heaven on a stick - he is just adorable & just between you & me, he made my ovaries ache & believe me when I tell you that my ovaries are icy cold & under lock & key! How are YOU coping???
MICHELLE _ Come out, come out wherever you are. Come on, don't make me skype you!
KELLY _ Can't wait to hear if you caught that egg my friend! WTG on Luke with his TT'ing!!! Awesome!!! See, I told you it would finally happen!
WILLOW _ HOw are you? How is your new school friend? I think of you every friday morning you know, when I write out Jessica's lunch order for the day.
ME _ Having a very relaxing day actually, spot of shopping, spot of cleaning, Claudia's swimming lesson, very peaceful - just how I like it. Off to walk down to pick up Miss JP very soon. I actually miss her during the week! Did you ever think you'd hear me say those words? NOw she is gone 5 days per week at school, I miss her heaps! Oh & I got Claudia's enrolment forms for Kindy today! My goodness, my baby in a school uniform in 11 months time!
Am I the only one who hasnt seen Daniel pics!? I bet he is just scrummy.
Lisa Im so excited for you!!! I can see why everyone waits to find out gender, its like christmas when your waiting for bub to be born so you can find out lol
Jayne; better keep away from MrJayne on your China adventure because you might just come back with a special souvenier with all that clucking coming from your corner
As for the weekend; I am off to get my hair coloured tomorrow. Then sunday Im having lunch with an old school friend. Hopefully I will get some of my assignment written up.
Oops better go before homemade pizza in oven burns. Boys are currently distracted watching Tinkerbell movie (Yep ) but their tummies are rumbling along with their mouths.........
Hey everyone, sorry I haven't been in much lately, busy week.
Freya - Pics of Daniel are on FB, don't you have Janie as a friend? Oooh, what colour, sticking with the blonde for now? Has your hair grown out much? Living vicariously through other people and their 'dos at the moment cause I am being all boring and growing mine. Going to get a colour in the next few weeks though.
Lisa - Well done on Miss A and the toilet training. Isn't it amazing when it just clicks? I still can't get over how well L is doing and it's been almost a month now. He goes on the school run now with big boy knickers and everything. Pretty much only has a nappy on when in bed and if we're going out shopping etc - don't trust him that much yet! LOL Not long to go now hey?! How exciting! Still thinking blue for you!
Kelly - Ditto on the TTing What a clever little boy! I'm glad you're having a nice time with your mum there, you deserve a break. Can't give any advice re OPKs cause only used them while ttc L and cannot for the life of me remember anything about them other than I used them and still got nowhere! LOL.
Mako/Megs - Jealous of your catch up, hopefully I'll be able to tag along in the not too distant future! DH and I were looking at another block of land today actually.
Jayne - My school friend is good, thank you for asking Have found out her name (took us about 4 days, we knew all the kids names but not each others!), shared birth and pregnancy stories, DHs' occupations, found out our bdays are only 2 weeks apart etc etc. We're getting there and its nice to have someone to talk to every morning and afternoon. Thinking of inviting her to my linen party, hosted by the mum who hasn't spoken a word to me since I booked it
Michelle - How you going?
Deb - How is DD? I hope she's feeling better and that you are coping OK
AFU DD has been sick with a throat infection and missed a day of school but is on ABs and predimix for mild croup (again ) Took her last dose today so hopefully she'll be on the mend.
L is a bit of a superstar in our house today for doing his first poo in the potty which he described as a 'yucky sausage' Equally amused and disgusted mummy!! I am a total prude and don't do bodily functions well at all.
D had a shocking night, well early morning really, last night. He is cutting his top two teeth and they look very sore. He is also coughing a bit which I'm keeping my eye on in light of DDs illness this week.
Did a new class at the gym on Wednesday night which I really enjoyed and my abs are reminding me all about it today...I'd forgotten I had abs
DH had an early mark today so he went to pick DD up from school which was lovely - it meant I didn't have to wake the boys and D had a 2 hour sleep, L 2.5 hours, me 1.5 hours Very frustrating having to wake them every day when I know they'd sleep much longer if we didn't have to go and pick DD up. Nothing to be done though, the girl has to go to school.
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WILLOW _ WTG on the sleepy dreams today! I bet you feel fantastic! Do you think it would work putting the boys to bed earlier in the day so you didn't have to wake them? I know the feeling of waking sleeping children, I hate doing that. I have had some with the IL's at Christmas time as I refuse to wake the children on christmas morning - the day is long enough as it is & I don't want to add tired & underslept children into the mix. They don't sleep late anyway - bout 7 - 7:30 is the norm, so I don't get the issue - but anyhoo.
FREYA _ As much as you crack me up, the only souvenir that I"ll be coming back with is fake handbags!!! How are you going? Geepers, you have been put through your paces just lately! I really hope it settles down & soon!
AFM _ Just had dinner with my mummy-school-friend again, hehehehe, a bottle of wine was consumed, even better, & we have plans for dinner again Sunday night - that is 3 dinners in one week - insane! But so much fun. My parents have asked to have Claudia overnight on Sunday, so I'm excited for Claudia, but secretly panicking for myself!
Hi lovely ladies . I am so excited, d was weighed tonight and has put on 80g over the last two days! That makes him 1520g, over birth weight, WOOHOO! He'll be going onto three hourly feeds now, and is getting closer to making the jump from isolette to heated open air cot. Can't wait to go in today and see him! Gotta celebrate every good thing atm, cos this is all horribly difficult. And knowing that we're there for weeks to come is really hard. I am up and down like a yoyo atm, i feel very tightly strung . But i keep telling myself that it won't be forever, we WILL be bringing him home one day soon! I have been reading all week, and following what you're all up to. But i hardly get a chance to get on the puter, and it's so painful posting from my phone, i don't usually have time. Please know i'm thinking of you all though! Xoxo
JANIE! Way to go little D! Thats a great gain, what a champ. I cant even imagine how hard this must be for you, you are an amazing woman.
Willow, I dont think I do have Janie on my list (do I!?)
Jayne, ah fake handbags Listen to you livin it up hehe Nothing like a dinner with a good girlfriend to raise your spirits. Your a brave woman, Ive never left any of my boys overnight yet not even with Dh (not that we have the option too with no family around). Will have to on the BB Gold Coast holiday for 3 whole nights. I think by that stage I will be sitting by the door with my bags packed ready to bolt to the airport for a week before hand
Janie That is just wonderful that little D has put on weight. What a little champion you have on your hands. You are doing a wonderful job hun. How are you doing after your C/S? I hope you are healing really well
Jayne WTG hun on having dinner with your friend 3 nights in a week lol.
I hope Claudia has a wonderful time at her grandparents house tomorrow night too. Oh and I have to agree with you on not waking kids up on Christmas morning. Its not like they sleep until 10am or anything
Freya How are your boys now? I hope everyone is feeling so much better. You sure have had a rough time of late.
Megsmum I'll be near the play area with the black and yellow empty stroller no doubt lol with a little blondie running around hopefully playing on the equipment lol. Looking forward to meeting you on Monday.
Willow So you guys are still looking at land?? Thats wonderful and just to think we'll all be able to catch up with each other more often. That'd be great
I'm so happy that you've found a friend at the school too. You are such a wonderful person and you deserve to have someone you can talk too,socialise with while waiting to pick DD up
Michelle Where are you?????????? I've been thinking of you often. I hope you had a great time away last weekend and hope Omar is being good to his mummy too
I'm so excited...I'm going out for dinner tonight with some lovely mummies. I can't wait although I'm a little worried about how my boys are going to cope as Sage literally screams every time I leave the house without him. I've told DH he should take him to Maccas and let him have a play and then have some dinner down there too and to take him before I have to leave. Hopefully this will help with the screaming
Janie - Woot!! Go bubba D!! You must be so pleased. I can only imagine how hard this is on you guys. I struggled having D in special care and he was with me most of the time so I cannot imagine what it's like for you You are all in my thoughts daily. Hang in there
Mako - (just typed your real name...whoops!) possible plan is to buy a block of land now-ish. When the time comes to actually move, we will rent this house out and rent a place up there for at least 12 months in case it doesn't work out, we don't like it etc. Then, once we are settled, we will either (a) Sell our house in Sydney and the block of land and buy a house up there or (b) Sell our house in Sydney and build on the block of land - my least favourite option! DH is keen to build, me....not so much! I'm a stress head and I think it'd just be a painful process.
Just had to share...bit the bullet this morning and went and got fitted for a good sports bra for the gym. I've been wearing a 14DD for aaaages and was pretty confident it was a good fit Oh my word...I ended up with a 10...GG!!!! Pretty happy about the 10 part, noooooot so much the GG!!
AND it cost me $90
The brand of the bra is Freya...so guess who I was thinking about while some chick jiggled and shoved my bbs around?!
Went to the gym and while I never wanted to spend that amount of money on a bra, I think it's going to be a good investment - I could actually run on the treadmill!
Anyhoo, enough of my randomness. Hope everyone is having a great weekend!
Last edited by Willow; March 6th, 2010 at 11:54 AM.
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