Thanks for all the support guys I just had a boot camp session and
managed to get out some pent up frustration. I had a big chat to mum this morning and she is going to help out during this week whilst I'm trying to get things together.

On a good note it only took 7 mins to settle for his sleep and he is still asleep 1 hour and going.

If this works I think I'll colapse in a heap.