Am I getting anywhere?? - VENT!

[MantaRay]

Oh no Mel. Big hugs. I hope tomorrow is your day.

[christy]

oh MR I know that would be so hard for you. I think having you leave them, rather than dropping them off may make it more difficult for them? I know my girls are happy to go into care when I go to work, but when I go out the one night a week for work and have to leave them, they both cry. Most of the time, even though I've been doing it for both of their lives with only a few weeks off.

I don't have any suggestions, other than doing things like going for short trips out & leaving them so they know you will always come back to them. Maybe J would go well if you did a chart of times, when you will be home etc..... he is so smart, he would understand when you are coming back.

I'm glad today was better.

[Lucy]

MR........no advice, but just some reasurrance......it is only early days. They will adapt. They are reacting in the short term to the change.

Hugs to you babe. xx

[MantaRay]

Thank lovely girls.

Christy, I love the idea of the chart, I think he'd really like that.

[Arimeh]

I hope you are feeling better today MR I think you are a fantastic mum