Hun, is it every night? I know that can be a bad time for DS1 too, being tired certainly brings out his worst behaviour. But I know that some foods can make him worse too. He's very susceptible to sugar, and I think some preservatives also cause us grief.

So a couple of suggestions: If this is only happening some nights, or is worse some nights, it might be worth keeping a food diary to see if there is a pattern between certain foods and this behaviour. And it also might be worth a try to see if you can do dinner earlier and then make bed time earlier. Does she still have a day sleep? Or a rest? If not, maybe try some quite time in the afternoon. Or maybe change your routine so the bath is at a different point - either before eating or after - and see if that helps.

Best of luck hun. It is not easy behaviour to deal with.