T, with the preschool, ours does a subsidy thing where if you earn under a certain amount (the top limit is $44,999 I think) you are entitled to a subsidy on your fees. It's a sliding scale too, so the less you earn the less you have to pay. Not sure if you would be eligible for that, but it's worth looking into as she would really benefit from going.

But I hope both of them get well soon for you though