Exactly!! Have you read my debrief? In there I have had some amazing support for Matilda's behaviour & one thing that I absolutely cling too is something a few said... Matilda will never be a follower, she will always stand up for herself & her personality is one that will determine the direction, rather than follow the path. She is a "spirited princess". Thats what we call her now. When people ask me if I have a "good girl" (for goodness sake why even ask???) I say I have an amazing "spirited princess". They usually want me to explain, but I won't. Especially if Matilda is in earshot.