Thanks for replying Shannon and Melinda

Shannon: Eliza is very fluent in her own special language she has great expression in her voice. I totally agree with the milestones being met at different times and when they are 10 I'm sure I would struggle picking the first walkers and talkers in a classroom and deep down I know it BUT as time ticks away and words still are hard to come by I know that appointment with the MCHN is looming in the picture where I fight for acceptance that she will get it and doesnt need to see a specialist.
I find it difficult too that Eliza is a special child in so many ways that people presume that she was so hard to concieve and carry that they often think that I will let her get away with alot of things that I dont, maybe the issues of having failures of pregnancys maybe stem to feeling a failure when Eliza is peforming to the normal percentage of kids.
Guee but is a whole other kettle of fish.
Melinda I havent forgotton will be back child is awake
Bec