Rainforest has it more than correct when she says to try not to compare yourself to others. Your baby is not the same as their baby. You certainly wouldnt compare your little bubba looking for "better traits" - so don't do that to yourself either.

My bubbas all went through brief periods where they'd demand that bit more attention and a lot more food. I was always told that they are doing more growing and developing in the first year of their life than they will ever do again - its why all they do is eat, sleep and cry. Its tiring, its hard, and sometimes it hurts, like teething.

Try and nap while she is during the day. Sleep deprivation is horrible, but truth be told, our schedule is more flexible than babies is.