Everyone you know might not be telling the whole truth either (in the nicest possible way). Sometimes we get our parenting skills and our child's restlessness mixed up. It's not an indication of your ability. If it was I would have thrown in the towel years ago.....

AND the fact that it seems to be one of the first questions everyone asks "does she sleep well, is she a GOOD baby?"

If I was asked that I would usually say "NO he isn't a GOOD baby, he doesn't sleep well at all and my eyes are falling out" - and the amount of people that sympathized and told me tales of how their kids were unsettled too made me feel much better. I wasn't the only one!

I thought I was the only one in my Baby Buddies with an unsettled one and didn't post much, till Christy spoke out...then a few more came out of the woodwork too

Don't compare. Sleep when you can, it will pass xoxoxoxo