How rude of that woman!
I always wanted to be a SAHM.. but i suck at it!
going back to work is rarely a choice nowadays.. dont be upset for having to go back to ensure your family are supported!
when i am working(or studying like now) i find i am Much more organised then when i am at home all the time. everything that needs to be done gets done and your kids will get all the fun times with you too.
just take one step at a time and you all will adjust fairly quickly.

xoxox