Ok so we got up at 6:30 this morning, (He slept through from 10:30 until 6:30!!! First time in months! #1), he was rubbing his eyes by 8am, I normally would have taken him to bed but decided to give your suggestions a go and waited until he was getting clumsy and very grumpy at about 10:30. took him to the toilet where he did wee's on the potty ( #2) the bedroom, fed him and he went straight to sleep!! now I know this could be a once off and possibly related to him sleeping through as well becuase he was no where near as grumpy and clumsy as he would normally be if I kept him up... but YAY all the same!!!

I'm going to get a little ahead of myself here but THANK YOU to Marcellus, becaus I've posted about this same issue a few times and you always say the same thing (sorry ) and it's taken me this long to get it and THANK YOU to Mummato2 and Shanti for your posts as well. Please Please, make this last