Yup its gone. Flown the coop.

Its fair to say that I hate my DD1's behaviour. For the last few months it has gone from bad to worse. The hitting, the complete viciousness towards her siblings - and I'm over it. All she does all day is make the other two kids suffer because she is a bully. And I'm over it, over consoling either the 3 year old or the 1 year old because their sister is mean. Even DS asked the other day why his sister is so mean to him - how the hell do you answer that?

For the third time now, she is currently locked outside with the dog. Its either that or flog the crap outta her (which I definitely don't want to do) but I am so ANGRY with her. I'm sick of her hitting her sister - for no reason. I'm sick of her lying on top of her sister and listening to her scream until I come over and yank her off her - she won't get off no matter how many times I tell her to, I actually have to go and physically get her off DD2. Every time I turn my back, she's laying into the other two, hitting, pinching - you name it she does it.

And I'm over it. I have no idea how to handle the situation bar put her up for adoption because I don't like her anymore I'm sick of her making my days hell because she's so cruel to others.