Tell me about it Maz! I am already consoling myself that my DD might have a baby of her own in as little as 8 years if she follows in my footsteps. I am holding onto all the nicest baby clothes, cot, toys, shoes etc for that happy day. How bad is that!
In some ways my mind was made up for me when I was diagnosed with my Graves disease. if it wasn't for this wretched condition i would be really grieving... as it is with my fatigue etc at least has made me realise that I need to embrace the next phase of life. It's hard though... for all the reasons you stated.
maz massive hugs to you i cry over this i wanted so many and i just physically cant and its so upsetting I wish ppl could have them for me. I know i shoudl be happy with the 4 plus one growing in me but i think some ppl are just born made mummies and thats me and maybe you. Where you always want more, i cant wait for grand kids but dd is only 11 and i dont want her to have them yet. I am slowly going through the acceptance process of this is it. :hugs to ya
My DD is 15 soon.... this sounds appalling but I won't be angry with her if she falls pregnant before i did (24) but in reality she has a very arms-length approach to physical intimacy and i can't see that happening anytime soon! Must remember that she is on her own journey and MUST not interfere! I am really looking forward to being a grandmother though... i have idolised that phase of life ever since I was a child. I revered my own grandmother and wanted to grow up to be just like her! I think I have been living like a granny for the past 20 years... y'know, doing my needlwork, wearing my apron... good grief i was experiementing with hair rollers last weekend... my own mother never wore them... but I think nana did! LOL I am seriously going to love being a Nana!
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I am already consoling myself that my DD might have a baby of her own in as little as 8 years if she follows in my footsteps. I am holding onto all the nicest baby clothes, cot, toys, shoes etc for that happy day. How bad is that!
if it wasn't for this wretched condition i would be really grieving... as it is with my fatigue etc at least has made me realise that I need to embrace the next phase of life. It's hard though... for all the reasons you stated.
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