Absolutely not, Cailin - I'm going to let DS know he follows MY rules no matter what grandparents or friends say! Sometimes Grandma says daft things but that's OK, she "means well", we just don't have to accept every bit of advice people give. Orders we do, like washing hands before a meal, but advice, like this is a good time to buy a baby an ice cream cone, we don't.

I guess DS will see me butting heads with my mum inyears to come, but he will NOT see me coming off the phone in floods of tears, nor will he hear me b*tch about my mum. My mum tried to turn me against some of my dad's family she didn't like... now I'm an adult I see how great these women are and ignore my mother even more. I'm not having DS love Grandma so ignore me!