Am I getting anywhere?? - VENT!

[MantaRay]

Some days it just seems like I can't do anything right. Today I feel like I am doing everything wrong with the boys. Tom threw a huge tanty this morning and Jack threw one tonight, Tom cries when I leave for work at least once a week, DH and I have disagreed over some things, and now (much to my surprise) it seems he was right (on some things anyway . Some days I just wonder if this job is too much for me.

I think I am just really tired and letting things get to me. But I do wish I could spend more time with the boys . Maybe I'm losing touch with them now that I'm working ft. Sigh. Hopefully I'll feel better tomorrow.

[Arimeh]

MR - I think we both should have taken the day off today to be with our boys.

Hopefully we both have a wonderful day tomorrow.

[KatieRabbit]

I hope you feel better tomorrow too MR. I am sure you do an excellent job with your boys and DH and working in and out of the home. It is a hard job though, isn't it??

[MantaRay]

Thanks for the support gals. How has your day been Mel? Mine has definitely been better. The boys woke up happy and they went off to day care quite happily. It is easier on day care days - they love it there and have lots of distractions when we leave. It's a bit harder on the days they are home with the ILs, I think they are finding it strange for both mummy and daddy to leave in the morning. It's only the second week we've both been working.

[Arimeh]

MR - I'm actually really really sick today so sent DS off to go to the IL's cos its too hard to try and go to the toilet with a 16 month old by my feet wanting to play!! Hopefully tomorrow will be my day...

[MantaRay]

Oh no Mel. Big hugs. I hope tomorrow is your day.