Some men dont deserve to be dads

[bubno.3]

It's so good that you've got a good relationship with his mother!

That's awful that he can't geth imself together enough just for a visit with his son. (Great name, btw - my little boy is called Tom ). Good for you for sticking up for the right thing to do, and for making sure your boy is safe. It's so hard having to watch your child do without a parent, though, isn't it?

um atcually no as i was Toms mum and dad for so long and now he has a step dad it is getting easier (but yes i hear you)

[bubno.3]

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[Toomanytoomany]

um atcually no as i was Toms mum and dad for so long and now he has a step dad it is getting easier (but yes i hear you)

That's so good that you look at it that way

I was probably thinking more of my own situation - my two older girls have a different father to my other kids, and he's been a flake all their lives. Even though they've had a stepdad who adores them, it's been really hard to watch their disappointment when their bio-dad has let them down yet again.

[bubno.3]

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[Butterfly Child]

i agree some 'dads' dont deserve the title abit of dna says nothing .

[bubno.3]

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