I love being a sahm - I do work, but at night, so my dh gets him... does that count? I couldn't bear the thought of leaving him with a stranger (or family) and going off to work and missing out on all his milestones! He's only little once. When I was pg, I wondered how my sister could do it, but now, I can see why! I love it! I had to wrangle an agreement with dh about it, but it worked out good, coz work wanted someone at night!!