Hun.. bugger routine I reckon shes 2 weeks old!! My DD is 5 weeks old and not in a routine I just go with it. She usually wakes every 2-3 hours herself for a feed. And all she does is feed/sleep/poo. I don't wake her up for play. There are moments where she wakes up has a feed and is content and stays awake afterwards and we have cuddles etc. But I dont have "designated play time" cause well.. shes a new born. They sleep, that's what they do. Your not going to ruin your child hun! Just go with the flow and for a while she will pretty much call the shots. I wouldn't be waking her for a feed unless its like during the day and she's going hours and hours without a feed. kwim? Most important thing I learnt is NEVER wake a sleeping baby. And I mean really 2 week olds don't need "playtime" .. well I don't think so anyway. Your not a bad mother and there isn't just one way to raise a child. The only time I have a routine with Paige is at night time. Bout 6-6.30pm I give her a bath and give her a feed in the quiet of her room and put her to bed. Just to get her use to day/night. But every baby is different ok.. take a breath and not stress. Do what YOUR comfortable with. Your not going to screw your baby up ok. Just take her lead for a bit... shes only new. and the BEST advice... heaps of people will give you pointers/advice on what to do... you dont have to take every single bit of advice, just take the pieces that you find are helpful