In my experience the routine that works best is one you work out with your baby. I give mine the first 3-4 months to show me how they want things and then start to make gentle 'suggestions' like baby would you like your feed a bit earlier so mum can go xyz or maybe you don't need 4 overnight feeds... How about a dummy and a cuddle instead!
Sometimes my negotiating works, sometimes it doesn't.


I also think sleep begets sleep so unless we need to go somewhere I don't wake a sleeping baby especially not one who is gaining weight as beautifully as your bub.

You will work it out. Sounds like you've got a healthy loved baby
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