The other sucky thing is that his start times vary a lot - so a late shift could mean anything from a 2pm to a 7pm start and anything from a 9pm to 3am finish. Makes it hard to get any kind of routine going other than me doing evenings and mornings.

I actually don't mind the cooking - it's just the mornings I despise.

I'm really not into daytime naps, just seems like a waste of time. I just want to be able to chill in the morning, one morning, without having to be up and at em looking after DDs.