I knew I was done before ds was born, the last few weeks was really difficult my body struggles to get past 34 weeks. We had discussions that even if he was a girl we would be finished. Once he was born was excited that he was a boy but would have been happy to have a girl too, but have never wanted a fourth. Our gp made hubby wait to get a vasectomy for a year to be sure but neither of us changed our mind. I am a bit sad about getting rid of everything but I am excited to watch them grow and find a bit of time for me now too.