Hi Freya,

My first 2 are 16 months apart, we then had our 3rd boy and he is 2 half years younger, like you I was worried that he would seem like the odd one out, but he is now 18 months and is the life of the party, if anything they fight over who is playing with him rather than he being left out.

I have finally got the go ahead from DH to start TTC 4 (am very excited) but there will be another gap of min 2 half years to 3 years depending on when I conceive. Like you I was worried about going back to basics again but the one thing I did find with having DS 3 was that you acutally have more time to appreciate the small moments of having a newborn rather than being constantly trying to juggle babies, toddlers etc.

So I think maybe the time to recover , have time to yourself, move etc may be a good thing and then when your next bubba arrives you will have the time to relax and enjoy every little moment