Sue different people will have different beliefs based on their own experiences and values. I too have been bombarded with unwanted 'advice' on the benefits of sibbling for DD. I now answer them with "we are unable to have anymore children" not completely technically true but it sure shuts them up LOL.

Also after years of TTC its kinda nice just to sit back and enjoy having a little one IMO and not think about TTC and the issues that brings for folk like us. At least until you want to think about it if you ever do.

There is a choosing to have a single child thread around if you want to chat on that.
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