Smug:- DD just turned 3 and can do 24 piece puzzles by herself.
She has the most amazing vocabulary
She is very independent

Crap:- refuses to eat anything I cook except for my spaghetti bolognaise or lasagna even things she used to scoff down.
She is the most stubborn kid
Can hold on most of the day (2 nappies used a day) and if naked will go to potty by self but put clothes on her she refuses. And not because she has trouble undressing