I won't be teaching my kids abstinence, I think it's a recipe for disaster. I will teach them to respect themselves and to wait for the right time or person, how to cope with pressure to have sex and of course safe sex.
I 100% agree with that. I think abstinence is an unrealistic expectation. It never worked in days gone by it definitely wouldn't now, sex is so socially acceptable and is not as taboo as it once was..