two things, and I still have to be intentional about them everyday:-

1. getting more realistic about how clean and tidy a house can be with a baby/toddler.

2. taking time to create memories - sitting on the floor with my DS for 10 minutes, just watching him play, and letting him climb all over me, without thinking about all the things that "need" to get done. I want to remember next week that DS played for 5 thrilling minutes with my scarf, pretending it was a cape, then a towel to "dry" his hair, then a flag ... not that I stacked the dishwasher, or had dinner ready "on time" ...