honestly we talk it out until its resolved. In your situation though, we expect each other to research all the evidence we can find to back up our point of view. we will talk it out until we can make a decision.
I dont know what sort of medicationyour miss is on, but if it were dh and iin your sit I would expect him to do the research and find the evidence to backup his point of view, if he couldnt then we dont follow his point of view does that make sense?