Polly - you are so right about judgement cutting both ways. SAHM or Working mum, some people choose what they want, others have no or little choice. The truth is that it is no-one else's business and they shouldn't judge. Unfortunately, people do - usually other women and usually because of their own insecurities. I think as a MUM, we do need to grow a thick skin and try not to let those judgement get to us too much.