ZF - it's crazy isn't it. People tell me that my boys play so well together - WHAT? They fight like crazy things at home for me.

I liked what Ro said - they know what is expected of them, and you can take credit for that. Home is a place where they don't have to try to be on their best behaviour and they know they can push our buttons. Just like me sometimes - somedays i'm a grumpy old cow to DH, but i can be nice to my girlfriends.

Being around other people is stimulating, challenging and tiring for little people. They love their mum and they know that you absolutely love them always - even when they are sooky or bending the rules.

I'm sure we both have totally normal kids - just sometimes they are a bit of a handful