I think this question is going to be answered in a way that is personal as obviously everyone defines their village differently.
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True and I think the definition changes over time For me, if you asked me what "village" meant 7 years ago I would probably have a different answer due to where I was living and the people around me. Since moving, my definition has moved from close friends to the overall community. May be it is a country thing, but if the call goes out, you help. That is regardless of friendship, regardless of whether that person has helped you in the past or that they may never help you directly, you help. It may be something that is once off, or may be ongoing, such a joining the CFA, CWA or some other group in the community