If it works for you and your baby then that is great and you don't need to feel bad etc. I have tried EVERYTHING! including leaving my DD to cry but it didn't work, just made her worse, she was able to scream for 6-8 hours at times when put to bed and the next night no better, then worse, then worse. Th fact that she had reflux didn't help either and then when she would cry this would make the reflux worse too.

I think every family has to work out what is best for them and their bubs and do what they feel is right, without judgement.