My older sister is a Nanny & she had Indah 3 days a week for us...

The children she looks after are always cuddled & she said she goes by whatever the Mother & Father have asked of her.
There was 1 family whom were routine focused & she said the parents were too busy for their kids & she never saw hugs etc... So whilst she was there they'd sit down & read books, build cubby houses etc...
The Mother asked my sister one day to explain games etc she had played with these children & the Mother broke down saying she had felt pressured into routine, routine, routine & realised then that her kids needed love, love, love!!! She quit her high flying job & my sister worked with her 1 day a week almost teaching the Mother how to enjoy her kids!
She eventually was no longer needed...

Most of the kids she nappies for, ejoy walks in parks, she takes them to Book/reading time at the local library, they do baking, make things etc...

I am more than happy with her looking after Indah... Coz I know she will cuddle her rather than ignore her!!!