thanks for that
i think most parents wish they could just put their baby/child in a cot and they go to sleep without cryng for hours . most parents wish they didnt have to be in a pattern of rocking wheeling, but many are. perhaps my question should have been those who succeeded in having a child who they put in a cot and they go to sleep easily how did they achive that, while also i know ofcourse children vary.

thanks