Just Let Her Cry..... (CC/CIO)

[Dollyroux]

:yeahthat: Yea sunflower girlie.
Damn it, why does someone always come along and say exactly what I wanted to say, but so much clearer and contained then I ever could .

To me, it's the difference between saying - Breast is best, or Formula feeding your child is THE WORST and you are causing UNTOLD damage to your child, you BAD BAD parent.

One is supportive and informative, and postive reinforcement. The other is unsupportive, rude, negative reinforcing and just down right unhelpful.

The continued references to "not taking the comments to heart/personall" are grating on me a bit. Just because I don't agree with the way the article is written, and feel that it is unhelpful, and used myself as an example, doesn't mean that I'm taking it personally, or to heart. I just disagree with the way it's written and the bald, emotive statements it's making.

I don't feel the need to respond directly to the author. The article is here for comment, (I assume), this is where I saw it, and so this is where I would like to keep my conversation regarding it.