My best friend has stuck to the CLB routine very rigidly and hasn't had much of a life the past year. And now because she's done that, her little man is quite rigid and it's hard for them to do things.

We have a "pattern" to the day but it doesn't revolve around times. DD can stay awake for around 2 hours - so we let her nap wherever we are. It works really well for us.

The only routine that we stick to is the bedtime one but again, there is no set time for that.

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