I never had a routine - I too was 100% baby led .... well, I thought we didn't have a routine... that was until I was talking with my nurse at the clinic when Bubs was a few months old: she told me to write down what we did for a few days - turns out he had made his own routine. Every few months the "routine" would shift and we would gently move onto the next stage.

Not so long ago I was fretting over dropping the late night/early morning feeds: again, he's done this on his own and has just naturally progressed to waking up later at a more respectable hour (although some people might not see 4.30am as 'respectable').

So, what I guess I'm trying to say is that whether or not you decide to follow a strict routine, you bub will most likely put themselves into one anyway!